Sunday, December 30, 2012

Will You Be My Quasi-Valentine? (Or, Early Spring Transition)

Let me begin this post by saying I am in no way, shape, or form sponsored or compensated by Old Navy or Gap, Inc. I am just a lucky gift card recipient.

With that said, it was lovely to receive a $25 gift card to Gap. I have been trying to cut down on extraneous purchases for a variety of reasons. The most prominent of these, aside from general life experiences, is travel.

According to Gap's website, you can spend a Gap gift card at Gap OR Athleta, Piperlime, Banana Republic, or Old Navy. So, when I received money that I could spend at a store I love for great little inexpensive accents, I was very happy indeed.

I checked out Old Navy's website and found a bunch of items I really loved. The ones I chose to feature have a fun, sort of off-kilter Valentine's day/quirky early spring feel to them.

The heart scarf and red satchel are really fun for Valentine's Day (which is also my birthday) but I feel like they are restrained enough to be worn together or separately at other times. Plus, the bag would fit a nook e-reader, so it won me over quickly.

The lobster tote and blue striped tee are just fun. They remind me weirdly of the Taylor-Swift-Conor-Kennedy phase. I would add dark skinny jeans and accessorize depending on the weather (my shoe of choice would be tan Rainbow flip flops.)

I adore the green dress and scarf. I would wear the dress walking around in Florida with Rainbows too! For DC time, I would add a cozy sweater, the adorable key scarf, brown tights, and brown Frye boots. This outfit is making me giggle because the DC version reminds me very much of a girl I work with--she does a really good job of mixing preppy style with slightly edgier pieces.

It will be tough to pick out which pieces I'll wear most out of the ones below...but it sure will be fun!

Will You Be My Quasi-Valentine? (Or, Early Spring Transition)

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Almost NYE

And at the top of my list of resolutions is not doing this. 


I have the privilege of having terrific, inspring friends. They work for amazing (occasionally government) organizations. They have multiple jobs and are able to run retail establishments while maintaining their mental stability. Some of them are LAWYERS, for crying out loud!!

While I have so much love in my life, I can't help but compare myself careerwise. I have a Master's...but I don't know if I want to work in my field. I also work two jobs...but I feel like they're not enough. I never took off between grad school and undergrad. Maybe that was a mistake for me.

At the same time, I realize that looking at other people and envying their jobs is not going to help me move forward. I have to actually sit and take time and think about what I want. The process can't be sped up, and this is challenging for me because I am both impatient and practical. I need to have a job while I figure my stuff out. However, I need to search for a job with more permanence than those I've had in the past couple of years.

So here is my plan.

Save money with the help of things like this...


Work small amounts from home while contemplating what I want in the long term using this...


And celebrate occasionally with my amazing fiance, family, and friends, at places and with outfits that are TBD. 

This is a good place for me to start...and best wishes for a happy and healthy 2013. 

Thursday, December 20, 2012

An Excellent Early Afternoon

I didn't have work yesterday and don't have it today. It is kind of glorious, and I am enjoying my pre-Christmas mini-vacation with myself. 

Today, continuing a little marathon I started yesterday, I finished re-watching the first season of Girls. I adore Lena Dunham in every way. As a very fortunate girl who is still figuring out what she's doing, it is so nice for me to watch the show and relate and LAUGH. 


My nails were a bit neglected so I showed them some love and painted them with some pretty neutral polish. Painting my nails while watching great TV or a movie is the best--my ADD is kept at bay and I can actually sit still until they're dry. 



Today's remaining plans: eat lunch containing protein. Go to an appointment. Maybe see The Guilt Trip with the dude. Steps are small, but life today is good. 

Monday, December 17, 2012

Travel (And Holiday Overload) Detox

I've been back in DC for a couple of days, and it's been pretty nice. Incrementally, our apartment has started to look less like a hovel...emphasis on "incrementally."
I feel like each time I venture into any kind of store (Starbucks, my current place of employment, ANYWHERE), I immediately drown in Christmas colors and smells and songs and deals. As a Jew who loves and celebrates Christmas, and a Democrat who covets luxury handbags, this has nothing to do with hating Christmas or capitalism or nice things. After a while, it just seems very...noisy.
So, I have decided to work on taking time for quiet. I am not going to hide in my home all day, and there is no way in h-e-double-hockey-sticks that I am parting with Starbucks. I do have some tricks that I think will help me breathe and better appreciate the holiday season.

1. Light a candle and write 

Writing this blog really is quite cathartic. Plus, making this my new quasi-productive activity will make me feel way less guilty about the Diptyque gift to self that I am planning.


2. See a movie



I have been waiting for This Is 40 to come out for such a long time. And by waiting I mean watching the trailer repetitively. I love darkened theaters and I don't even mind that much when some person screams something awkward. Plus, I get to be comfy and spend some time with the dude. We don't have to dress up, we can go to Chadwick's before, and I know we'll have a great night. 

3. Keep track of spending and sent holiday cards


I love these Rifle Paper Co. Pocket Notebooks. 

This is by far the lamest of the three, but at least I can burn a candle while doing it. 
We're sending out our save the dates, so I am starting an address spreadsheet. 
I also have a list of holiday cards I've sent so far (mainly for Hanukkah) and am going to start one for the remaining ones. I absolutely wouldn't care if I received a card twice from someone, but this helps me breathe easier and feel in control. Plus, there is a way smaller chance of wasting postage.
Also, something I've noticed at work is people reciting their shopping lists to themselves. I am totally guilty of this. I also am guilty of buying cute little extras at work because I get a discount. If I have a list where I can hold myself accountable and also remind myself that I've gotten a lovely and very much sufficient gift for someone, my spending will be more restrained. 

I will also be listening to country music and Ke$ha in lieu of "And So This Is Christmas." And drinking Starbucks holiday beverages--after all, it's all about balance.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Holiday Survival Guide: Part 2

We have returned from our trip...a day later than planned, but in one piece and with our luggage intact.
The items below helped maintain my sanity as well, in both Florida and Wisconsin. (Our time spent on airplane runways was pretty questionable.)
The flats worked in both destinations, especially because the weather was pretty mild (by Wisconsin standards) in Milwaukee. They also helped me look somewhat pulled together when we met with our cake vendor in Florida.
The watch is actually fun to wear--I've had it for about a year and love it. It's nice to look at a watch instead of jostling through my bag for my phone.
Speaking of bags, my orange Kate Spade bag (very similar to the one shown) kept me organized, especially in Wisconsin. It also fit into my small Vera Bradley travel duffel and weirdly served as a notebook/file/iPad/magazine organizer. If it works, it works.
Finally, the trip was fueled by plenty of Starbucks. We met my dad there for breakfast twice when we were in Florida, and I believe that the dude's family has finally accepted that $5 beverages in the morning make me a more pleasant person to be around. On a serious note, we really did have an awesome time in Wisconsin. As the dude pointed out, sometimes I have a lot less to be nervous about than I think I do.
Next up, hopefully posted within the next several days: tips for successful travel recovery.

Holiday Survival Guide: Part 2

Monday, December 3, 2012

Holiday Survival Guide: Part 1

Holiday travel begins this week, and with it comes some moments that are...less than ideal.
I'm not sure quite where my mentality comes from (oldest child? hoarder? general weirdo?), but I just like having what I need when I need it, especially when it seems like I can't control anything that's going on around me.

I think that when most people (myself included) pack, we tend to think of only the good moments. We do not think of the moments when we are hiding in a room wishing we could be magically teleported back to our apartments. However, having had some of those moments, here are some of the things that can add some pleasantry to a challenging holiday excursion.

Tocca Stella fragrance: I find it kind of funny that one of the fragrance's top notes is bitter orange (http://www.bluemercury.com//citrus-perfume/tocca-stella-eau-de-parfum.asp) because when I needed it last year, I was quite the bitter orange myself. It got me through some pretty emotional moments and also brightened up a chilly destination that in many ways was the opposite of my home in Florida.

EOS lip balm: Swirling the sphere around your lips (it's hard to get too much on) is weirdly soothing. My favorite time to do this is when I'm waiting for a plane to take off. Might as well moisturize during that dead time...plus, the sphere (and the fragrance above) both meet TSA carry-on standards.

Peppermint Tootsie Pops: I found these at a Target last year and they were absurdly wonderful for crunching away my aggression while hiding in a room with my nook. During that same trip, I discovered the Hunger Games series. In retrospect, including the stress weight I dropped, the trip wasn't so bad after all. Bonus: Even if your trip is going well and you're not annoyed, having a Tootsie Pop or two will help ease a craving for sweets without the same caloric burden carried by a huge slice of pie or a bunch of holiday cookies. For the sake of honesty, I think it's fair to say I crunched my way aggressively through many more than two Tootsie Pops during that vacation. But life goes on.

Now that I've gotten out my worries/strategies for stressful vacation moments, I'm looking forward to discussing some ways that I can spread some holiday cheer during my time away from home.


Holiday Survival Guide: Part 1